briank20•7mo ago

Facing a flaky friend leaves me unsure how to respond

She cancels our plans at the last minute every time, and I don't know if I should say something or just accept it.

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rowanburns7mo ago

Ever notice how someone's always "sick" right before plans? My buddy's "friend" did that till he stopped asking.

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burns.terry7mo ago

Ugh, I know exactly what you mean. It's so disrespectful when people constantly flake last minute. Makes you stop wanting to make plans at all.

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pat5796mo ago

Sometimes people have legit stuff come up, life gets messy. @rowanburns, maybe that buddy's friend had anxiety or a rough patch. I've had guys cancel work last minute for a family emergency, it happens. Could be worth a quiet chat instead of just cutting them off.

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