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A guy on my third date told me I ask way too many questions, now I'm stuck between two ways of doing dates
Six months ago this guy Matt on our third date at a diner in Sacramento told me flat out, mid meal, that my rapid fire questions made him feel like he was at a job interview. So I tried the opposite on the next few dates, barely asking anything and just letting them carry it. It felt lazy and honestly two of those dates just died into silence over the appetizers. Now I can't decide which is actually right, do you learn more by asking a lot, or does it kill the vibe? Matt texted me last week wanting a do over and I have no clue if his feedback was fair or just him being sensitive.
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